10/19/12

Give a little and take a little

Remember Guess whos coming to dinner? Im trying to remember the words to the theme song.
I love any movie with Sidney Poutier in it.I had a crush on him since child hood.
Hes always so cool calm  and collected even when hes real angry.Perfect gentleman.
I dont want to gush all about him.
Its Friday.The day I do a soul search check list.
1 morale boosted check
2 out of self pity mode check
3 inspiration check    etc
I have my list completed.
Until yesturday I spent to much time in doors because my sister and her bf have spent so much time in my neighborhood.
I was living like a vampire.I only go out after dark when I know shes home.Below the coast is clear.No sister in sight and I get to hug the telephone pole!
My ex hubbys birthday is next month and it was looking like all I could give is a hug and a kiss.Or clean his apartment to a high shine.
I wanted to get him a hoody and a cake and his fave fish and its looking like I will be able to.
Finally some body bouht a pearl set of earings a bracelet and choker. So I have money and the freedom to give him the material gifts I was hopeing to.
I love that little luxury of be able to buy some thing for some one.I will give him his birthday hug and I will get his apartment so clean he wont recognize it.
The smile on his face is my motivation and his happiness will pass on to me.
Oh happy day it is.The person on Ebay says on Monday I cant pay you till friday.Im laid up in the hospital.I told him no probs its fine get well soon.
Just as he promised I have the money! The freedom. The gift of being able to give.
Its funny what you can do with a happy heart.

Happy Friday and happy weekend

I am Ian Andersons bigest fans.Not loyalty wise.Size wise.His smile makes me happy and entranced. My speakers are broke so I cant hear this happy little song.

2 comments:

bugerlugs63 said...

O so good to read you being happy Bev . . . and happy to make your ex happy, that's so sweet and kind.
It's true though, making someone else happy, comes back to you, for sure. I love Ian Anderson, many folk used to say Silverhip looked like him . . . and not only did he look like him, Silverhip once mended Ian's flute, as Silverhip was a very skilled silversmith and worked with specialised wood wind instruments, he is actually quite fampoius for it now . . . . and rich! O well, most of my exes are rich and most of them were tight! It's lovely to see how generous you are towards your ex, I'm like that too. I often send pressies into prison that i can barely afford. Have a great weekend Bev, sending you hugs and much love from Di x x x

Bev said...

Di
Im in charge for the moment of my nerves and mood.I was worried about ex hubbys birthday and now hes going to have a good one.
Ooooh you bf looked and fixed Ians flute.Wow!
Is ther something feline about him? He looks like a cute freckled kitty.To handsome!
Thank you for love and hugs.I always need them and hold on to them.
Hugs and all blessing to you & family XoXoxo

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